What Makes You A Man!

Before I start this post, just to make it clear that what you will be reading is all based on personal opinion. You can critic/comment/condemn it whatsoever, but this is purely a personal view short post.

Being gentleman, having good career, working damn hard for living, having a good car and house, possessing good personality in front of all, etc. Do you think with all these positive characteristic makes you a real good man? I doubt so! One can easily make themselves look so good especially with their physical appearance, which makes them feel so confident with themselves. Now, people won't be able to see the down side of them. People will praise and said how good are these men, blah blah blah. That's because they know THE WAY of hiding or make things look good.

In fact, at the other end, some men just making shits. Of treating friends, girl friends and families, some of these men are such a big time failure! So hey, female ain't human huh? How could you mistreat a female as if she is your slave? How could you lay your hand on your mistress/gf/mother? To worst, how could you kill your own child! Well, as the Chinese saying goes "It took two hands to clap, both were at fault" . Still, the one who start cheating is at fault big time!

Rich/wealthy guys can savor different ladies at one time. Can women do so too? Oh well, who knows.
A friend said: When a guy is rich/financial stable, he can do anything start with cheating. Once cheat, he can cheat forever. Never ever trusted such guy. *psst, this statement came from a guy tho*

As such, it's quite a pity to the ladies that their partner is cheating them all time. Some knows it but pretending not knowing it. Power of love?
But there is such a statement from a guy: Male partner sleeping with another women, so what? As long as they know to go home, get back with the spouse/family, that doesn't really matter.
Now, can you agree with such statement? (especially to the ladies). If there's a lady who can accept her partner doing such thing, my salutation to you.

Just don't do the bad thing (or maybe not bad?) mentioned above, now you are the good/better ones, served with full respect!

Anyways, different people have different perspective on this topic. Just do the right thing with no regrets!

So, what do you think about a real man?

Adios,

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Qualities Men Should Have?

I was browsing Facebook's news feed while taking a break from work and I saw an interesting video titled "Are YOU the guy that girls (like ME)...WANT??". Along with the caption which caught my eye--- Qualities Men Should Have? Hmm, it's gonna be interesting! Ok, I know it's a common thing everyone would knows but deep down, do you really knows what qualities a man should carry? (I'm not saying I know very well what qualities men should have.) It doesn't matter if you are a female or male, but do click play on video below if you haven't already do so. I believe most of the people have watched this vlog posted by one of Malaysia's local model Felixia Yeap and some might got frustrated for what she had said. But hey, it's all about personal opinion, so chill k?

Apparently, girls are looking for someone perfect with model-like body, 6 packs, tall, handsome, rich, etc. Sounds a perfect package for a male partner to be? Yea rite, perhaps one or two lucky ones will have it OR you might have that in your sweet-land! Undeniable, back in those teenage days, girls like listing out what my BF have to be with those C's (cars, cash, condo, etc.) Oh well, those are the days.

Come to think of it, which girl doesn't hope herself will have a perfect partner/bf/soulmate? But hey, there's no perfect individual out there, not me or you. In fact, the imperfect of an individual makes one perfect uniquely. So people, do not blame your partner for not being perfect for you, nothing fits perfectly.

Recently on my birthday, a male friend of mine had a conversation with me saying I should start looking for a BF and procrastinate no more. Well, am not in a hurry nor procrastinating. I can't deny that am very picky in selecting partner because that is who I am. It's not easy to get a BF and am looking at various aspect before getting one. First impression is always important as that depicts a men's personality, characters, qualities, etc that they possessed. Also not forgetting the feeling (especially first time meeting) that both parties had for each other.

To make this simple and short, I've short listed a few qualities I value in men:

• Respect - Respect yourself and others regardless what or who they are. I believe parents do educate kids when they are young as this is the basic manners. Listening to others, even if you do no agree with it, at least that shows some respect from you. Also, every individual has a name so call it! It is such a simple common sense manners thingy and if you fail to do so, that's such a failure man! Now, respecting women.How many of you actually respect a woman? The most common ones would be a mother, I hope you really respect a mother as SHE is just so awesome who bears/do everything for you, she's a housewife, a mother, a wife, an employee, etc. And so, what about your partner/partner-to-be? It is amazing to know some men think of women as objects. It can be sex objects, slave, animals, etc. I saw man hitting the GF/wife, as if she's not a human. I heard stories of how women being treated as a sex slave, I saw employees being harassed by male colleagues, some got insulted/humiliated. Come on, what is in your mind? Aren't the women human beings? Ok, even the women are at fault for some reason, they still deserve a minimal respect. So, respect it is!

• Responsibilities - I believe that every individual has their own responsibility in every aspects. Responsible to yourself in terms of personal finance, future, career and promises. Practice what you preached! Do not break promises or to be accurate, do not simply promise anything to your girl if you think you can't make it. Humans are emotional species, they have feelings so do not simply take them for granted. Be honest, faithful and have trust in a relationship. 

• Confidence - Real men should possess confidence, wait, don't get me wrong. It's not self-egoistic or arrogance, you should know it right. Confidence stand out when men are self-aware and self-assured of their capabilities and knowledge. As such, men earn trust and respect, they shine too!

• Physical Attraction - Like I mentioned earlier, first impression plays a crucial part which inclusive of a physical appearance of men. Ladies, you do not want men appear to be in a mess and smells stink right? Men should at least groom themselves looking clean and tidy (the basic). Personally, I have male friends do manicure, waxing and facial and I respect them for putting in effort grooming up themselves (they are not gay ok?). With a clean and neat self-grooming, it actually helps enhance your social circle, career, etc. Personal outfit too, plays an important role. Dress smart, it shows your confidence too!

• Personal Hygiene - Speaking of hygiene, am very particular on how men actually take care of their personal hygiene. I encountered men with ugly dirty nails, smelly socks & clothes (I bet that's from sweats accumulated for days), ewwww I just can't stand guys with all that! Sorry to say but don't you think men should have basic personal hygiene practices? Trim your nail, change your clothes daily and put on some perfume. At least when you are going on a date, you smells good and girls will not refrain from standing closer to you. 

• Ambitious - You might said am a workaholic and thinks am a mad lady with no social life at all. Only if you know what drives me to be, you will not say that. Personally, I prefer guy with high ambitious looking to achieve higher in life, that actually motivates me to work harder smarter in life. 

• Perseverance - Guys who never give up in life is what I salute them most. Regardless of how many times of trial/failures, men with perseverance can withstand difficult circumstances and emerge stronger! 

Enough said. Are you the ONE?

*Disclaimer: Written above was all based on personal opinion, no offence to both men and women. Feedback/comments are most welcome. 

Yours Truly,

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