What Makes You A Man!

Before I start this post, just to make it clear that what you will be reading is all based on personal opinion. You can critic/comment/condemn it whatsoever, but this is purely a personal view short post.

Being gentleman, having good career, working damn hard for living, having a good car and house, possessing good personality in front of all, etc. Do you think with all these positive characteristic makes you a real good man? I doubt so! One can easily make themselves look so good especially with their physical appearance, which makes them feel so confident with themselves. Now, people won't be able to see the down side of them. People will praise and said how good are these men, blah blah blah. That's because they know THE WAY of hiding or make things look good.

In fact, at the other end, some men just making shits. Of treating friends, girl friends and families, some of these men are such a big time failure! So hey, female ain't human huh? How could you mistreat a female as if she is your slave? How could you lay your hand on your mistress/gf/mother? To worst, how could you kill your own child! Well, as the Chinese saying goes "It took two hands to clap, both were at fault" . Still, the one who start cheating is at fault big time!

Rich/wealthy guys can savor different ladies at one time. Can women do so too? Oh well, who knows.
A friend said: When a guy is rich/financial stable, he can do anything start with cheating. Once cheat, he can cheat forever. Never ever trusted such guy. *psst, this statement came from a guy tho*

As such, it's quite a pity to the ladies that their partner is cheating them all time. Some knows it but pretending not knowing it. Power of love?
But there is such a statement from a guy: Male partner sleeping with another women, so what? As long as they know to go home, get back with the spouse/family, that doesn't really matter.
Now, can you agree with such statement? (especially to the ladies). If there's a lady who can accept her partner doing such thing, my salutation to you.

Just don't do the bad thing (or maybe not bad?) mentioned above, now you are the good/better ones, served with full respect!

Anyways, different people have different perspective on this topic. Just do the right thing with no regrets!

So, what do you think about a real man?

Adios,

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Random Happenings in Life.

Going through terrible weeks lately due to hectic schedule, hardly get an off day for myself to rest my body & soul. With some unexpected add on task, I still have faith on myself that I can handle them well. Oh well, I really did them well as I would not be able to sleep well if things are not done nicely.

On top of that, as a normal human being I still have my own social life/private time after work. Going all out from Monday to Sunday is indeed tiring but fun when work/task is done, satisfaction says it all! But, there are always hypocrite/pretender trying to stand out or to show he/she is THE ONE. Creating havoc, messing around with people, talk more/too much than action, this is what they do most of the time. Perhaps they want more attention? Uhmm, I guess you somehow made it coz am writing this and you've got my attention ? *applause* Sometimes, you don't need to do all these hoo-haa just to grab attention. Be yourself, you will get the recognition one day.

But hey, PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACHED! As the saying goes, "Action speaks louder than words". If you were to just walk around telling people your grandmother stories, why not just save up your time and do something which is of your priority. Lame old excuses are no longer useful these days so never ever think of using it yo! Just do what you should do and show others a good example, now that will makes you a better person and get respected by others.

Spreading/disclosing improper statement which is not supposed to be will only reflects who/what kind of person you are. Now you think that makes you feel damn great and proud of yourself? *pat pat*

Happened to be in nerve-wracking situation on hectic days seriously driving me nuts, literally! *pulling hair*
Learnt not to give a damn respond and balanced myself sticking to 2 of my current favorites:

Till then,

Elaine

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